12 November, 2011

Talk before Sleep by Elizabeth Berg

In this book, Elizabeth tells the story of true friendship between two women Ruth and Ann. Ruth is dying from Breast Cancer and she is being taken care of by Ann and some of her other friends LD, Sarah, and Helen.

I really liked the character of LD who wouldn't give up hope until the end no matter how much they told her that Ruth's death was inevitable. But the best part of the story is the friendship shared between Ruth and Ann, a friendship that strong is very rare to find today. I truly enjoyed reading this book and has to be one of Elizabeth's best. 
 
I think it might require a unique respect for love and friendship to wholly relate with the characters in this novel. But the truth is, the book was not at all sappy, but depicted the reality in some life situations i.e. divorce, discontent with male counterparts, humdrum of every day common life.


I believe that men will never be able to relate to a book such as this, in which women place their true friends in front of their husbands and children during moments of desperation to identify themselves. Men could never share this connection depicted in the novel with women or with men due to social mores, and therefore I pity those men who read this book and simply never understand it.

I recommend this book to anyone who has experienced any sort of strong bond with another woman, or if you have not, then to a woman who has never felt the necessity to share a bond with another woman. You will be convinced otherwise.